WITH ALL DUE RESPECT, SHE HAD A VERY SAD and DESTRUCTIVE LIFE: "If there be a man before me who says that the wrath of God is too heavy a punishment for his little sin, I ASK HIM, IF THE SIN BE LITTLE, WHY DOES HE NOT GIVE IT UP?" ~ Charles Spurgeon
I woke up today and I am done. Its not that you no longer love that person but you love yourself more. You will never find happiness if you continue to allow yourself to deal with crap then you will never find real happiness. Dont let your loyality to someone else who has no loyality for you keep you from someone who will. This lesson takes some people longer to understand than others. Some people will never get it...and that is sad.
This is the greatest lesson I have learned. Six months ago I realized I no longer desired to be involved with "fixer-upper" men. I can't love the hurt and "mother issues" out of them, that is their job. I no longer desire the heavy drinking, drama filled, low self esteem, emotionally unavailable, aggressive "older man trying to be a party boy". I deserve a COMPLETE, mature, self sufficient, SOLID, gentle, intimate, strong, protective, responsible, caring man and I finally have him:)