True-- Ladies, do not allow your ex to take your life away from you or your family, as I did. It will hurt for a time but realize that if he cheated on you, or walked out on you, you need to let him go...mind, body, and soul!
I guess self harm to me is a big release. Wether or not I'm sad mad or just feel nothing at all. No matter what I feel I still want to cut. I want to see my skin ripped apart. (As weird as that sounds) cutting doesn't hurt as much as the pain inside.