I don't chase but do spend too much time caring and staying in touch years when they don't bother to check on me. I never seen that as a flaw. My love for others is stupid. I need to just leave people alone. I'm better off alone anyway and happier.
This is what constantly gets me tripped up, the ones that do small things vs the ones that say they meant to do nice things. you can't read some ones mind to know they think about you, they have to show you