"When I say that women are oppressed, I do not mean that men are never oppressed. Men are, not because of their gender, but because they are poor men, or racially despised men, or homosexual men, or men who do not conform to strict gender stereotypes. Women are oppressed in these ways too, and, in addition, because of their gender." - Phyllis Chesler, PH.D.
The fact that girl being a feminist is a turn off to a lot of guys is just further proof that sexism exists. They're literally saying they don't want a girl who requires respect because that's just no fun.
'The Patriarchy' could be replaced even with 'The Church' a few places here. I am SICK and tired of young, impressionable teenagers being taught that girls must cover up their bodies to the point of being ashamed to expose them, because boys are such sex-craved animals that they have no self control over their thoughts and actions, and are therefore, less accountable for them than the females who 'provoked' them to sin by dressing scantily.