Please. Put down your weapon. People care about you. Don't harm yourself because one person or a group doesn't like you. They're trying to make themselves feel better. Remember awesome ends with me(you) and ugly starts with u(them). They're jerks. Repin!
Well worth doing. Takes 5 minutes. You will know yourself better. You will understand why some things matter and somethings leave you cold. And if your partner can implement your love language you will feel sustained and impowered.