Exactly. Just be yourself! If you don't like who you are or you're ashamed of how you treat people, work on it! Do small, simple, nice gestures for people. Don't make a show of it so you can look good. Kindness isn't for the benefit of you, it's for them.
Only those special people who you truly care about and trust enough to not judge and u actually reveal to them who you really are. The best feel in gin the world is when you show the person you truly love who you really are and it makes them love you even
I read once that the ancient Egyptians had fifty words for sand & the Eskimos had a hundred words for snow. I wish I had a thousand words for love, but all that comes to mind is the way you move against me while you sleep & there are no words for that.