Stop giving your heart back to the hands that broke it, expecting them to repair it. Only God can do that. It's not worth your time to continue to invest your feelings into somebody who's CLEARLY unworthy of your love. It's impossible to create the relationship you want from someone who's not ready to give it to you.
You have to BE ACTIVE. Ask people questions, seek help and then do it... Don't just expect everything to fall into place without you putting forth any effort. God expects us to walk, to seek, to go, to act, to do, to bear fruit....but before we can do any of that. .. we have to BELIEVE in our hearts and have faith even when we don't see much proof.