Don't change yourself in an effort to make someone love you. Because when it ends, you'll be left with a version of yourself that was never really you. You'll be loved like you deserve once YOU start loving who YOU are.
Behind The Supernatural According to Kabbalah, this is a positive way of using “supernatural powers,” i.e., transforming relationships between us from negative to positive. We cannot turn them “upside down” since it is an external system for us. Nowadays, the way we are connected make us treat each other quite poorly.
So many people let the world change who they are , or pretend to be something their not. Rare are the ones who don't let their trials change them , who remain true to themselves and to the people who are true to them.