Life is short... women try again with someone new. men try again with someone who theyve made the mistakes with already. the value gained from making mistakes together and trying again (trial and error) works in every other endevour. you see men as weak or desperate when they want to try again. a true man own it will try again.
I can be ridiculously excited about things, usually followed by some embarassment because I should stop being so excited and just act like a normal grownup. But to hell with that: if I'm happy, I want to show it :D