This is truly and interesting thought. Men often take what they want out of their holy books to enforce and condone women into their specified gender roles. Men use these roles to out women in a neat little box with themselves as the box maker. I think that women accept these roles too, instead of standing up for themselves.
This is so so important I hear "Muslims are terrorists" often, and yet I also hear "oh come on not all Christians are like that" in reference to the KKK and Westboro Baptist Church. It's ridiculous, obviously Christians aren't inherently bad people, just like Muslims aren't inherently bad people. The only difference is the religion.