I know someone like this. Look in the mirror before you judge someone else. You're the hypocrite. . I also don't apologize and want things to work out then blame others for my mistakes and talk bad about them.
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered...)