Physiologically, laughter brightens our spirits, the benefits nearly impossible to entirely quantify. So...fake it till you make it. Fake laugh until you real laugh. (Go ahead and try it, I know you want to.)
I agree and disagree. Because there's negativity everywhere, you can't run away forever. What u can do (or at least try) is let it flow by you and continue its way, not holding on to that. It has to flow TROUGH you.
Expecting that someone alter their emotional availability after marriage is like asking a Care Bear to turn into a Unicorn. An emotionally unavailable boy/girlfriend will only turn into an emotionally unavailable husband/wife.