I agree and disagree. Because there's negativity everywhere, you can't run away forever. What u can do (or at least try) is let it flow by you and continue its way, not holding on to that. It has to flow TROUGH you.
Remains Of The Day was a BAD, awful movie though the acting was good, the protagonist thought wrong about loyalty. Be loyal, but only to good, not to codependency. The mafia is codependency, as is addiction partnerships, communism and socialism.