After all our long talks I realized this....he'll never be happy with his self because he just won't be honest with himself; he's too worried about appearances & what others think. I don't care what others think of me I'm full of flaws and I accept that.
If someone seems to not care about hurting your feelings - you can decide to forgive them. Move on because any grudges you carry will hurt you more than them. Use that energy to plan and prepare for the life you want to live and dream of. Remember this...you will want forgiveness too one day. Don't let the little things hold you down or make you always upset.