Living in the past was never God’s intention for us – He desires to make us brand new in Him. If you are a believer, you no longer have the wear the chains of past hurts and regrets. And don’t allow the enemy to tell you otherwise.
If therefore you were raised together with Christ, seek the things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things which are above, not on the things which are on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. (Col. 3:1-3) Recovery Version Bible, quoted at www.agodman.com