Think about it.... just 'WHOSE' message are you listening to?? Jesus' message: revealed each person's depraved state (Gen 3; http://www.gotquestions.org/total-depravity.html); their sin (Exodus20); their need to REPENT be BORN AGAIN (John3); to "die to self" and FOLLOW Him(Matt 4:19 16:24... (http://www.acts17-11.com/death.html). Is this what you're learning from your "preacher(s) you listen to"?? If not, RUN!
Anthony Robbins: he once said the reason we get mad at someone is because they did not do what we wanted them to do. I believe that is so true. Think about it the next time you get mad at someone. It isn't them...it is you.
I guess I've never really thought about it this way before. It's just a natural thing for me, it's how I'm wired. It's one of the qualities about myself that I'm most grateful for. That I was entrusted with this Gift.