The main objective. People wrongfully jump to conclusions that they're doing better than you because you don't announce your dreams, goals and aspirations. It's a result of pure ignorance. @GolddennGoddess
I don't chase but do spend too much time caring and staying in touch years when they don't bother to check on me. I never seen that as a flaw. My love for others is stupid. I need to just leave people alone. I'm better off alone anyway and happier.