theportablefaulkner: if you get the inside right, the outside will fall into place [ Clocks slay time... time is dead as long as it is being clicked off by little wheels; only when the clock stops does time come to life. ]
Your are your 'selfish' years. It's a decade to immerse yourself in every single thing possible. Be selfish with your time. and all the aspects of you. Tinker with shit, travel, explore, love a lot, love a little, and never touch the ground. Shit I Love.
Hold my hand? Better is to say, I need a warm hug and please hold me tightly. This is true, as humans we all need some sort of physical contact, it's more healing and stress removal than anything man made like pharmaceuticals etc, and allot cheaper too!