Be honest. How many worship services have you been to where music has been the single most moving factor? Yet how much do we as worship leaders focus on hymn and music selection? How will you focus on music this season to guide your worship services?
And this is why our 6 year old does not throw temper tantrums, shows respect ("yes/no sir/ma'am") and has manners ("yes/no thank you" or "yes/no please"). Demonstrate to them NOW so they can and will grow up to be a respectable adult. Tough love, baby. Works like a charm.