I do NOT owe anyone any explanation for my boundaries. I'm caring, understanding, loving, and I'll listen and help when I can. The need to prove anything beyond that because it's put in constant illogical doubt is toxic. Enough.
Unfortunately we learn a little late down the path that most things that we worry about and give our utmost intentions to dont really give us comfort . Stopping and putting things in perspective of fond memories and happiness doesnt happen often enough.