Maybe if you spent as much time working on your marriage as you did of accusing me of all of these terrible things that I didn't do, maybe you wouldn't be in this situation. Get of your ass and take control of your life. Leave me the hell out of it.
Of course you should not steal others ideas, however I believe knowledge should be an open market and you should not keep your ideas to yourself. Plus, if you have multiple people playing with your idea, it will be faster to develop something out of it.