Projection. They'll accuse others of cheating, being argumentative, uncooperative, lying, vengeful, jealous, vindictive, etc. Listen closely. They are projecting. Which is telling you what they are actually doing. Seems absurd until you've lived it.
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True. Revenge will hurt you more than the other person. By letting go of those who hurt you you're not only setting yourself free but you're respecting yourself by removing those toxic people from your life.
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Avoid people who: 1. Mess with your head. 2. Intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. 3. Expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. 4. Can't and won't apologise sincerely. 5. Act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behaviour.