I personally like this headcanon that James eventually stopped asking Lily out (not because he gave up on her, but because he wanted to at least be friends with her if nothing else) and Lily realized she'd fallen for him, even if she didn't want to admit it. After weeks of denial and then acceptance and then frustration that James wouldn't ask her out, Lily swallows her pride and just asks him out one day.
actually, he didn't lose my faith then. he may have gotten to know E but he didn't sleep with her or anything so I think I could forgive him for it when he cut her off. it was when he blamed Sherlock for Mary's death that I really lost faith in him. I don't know if he thought Sherlock just stood there while she got shot or what but John feels guilty and he's pushing off onto my baby and that's just not cool at all.
Accept peace in your life.***he is an antagonist. I have been growing and trying to cultivate peace the best i can, but i also need to maintain strength in order to pursue him legally. I have tried asking, threatening legal action, tried loving him- whatever i do he carries on his emotional sexual violence towards me. I know what i am doing, so thanks for the advice, but i have got this.