You will only ever be as great as the people you surround yourself with, so be brave enough to let go of those who keep bringing you down. You shouldn’t force connections with people who constantly make you feel less than amazing. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/01/29/10-painfully-obvious-truths-everyone-forgets-too-soon/
True for women and men. If you aren't happy with yourself, adding someone else (or something else for that matter) won't change the unhappiness that's inside. That is your job alone, and you can choose to create your self complete!