12. At 42, Steven meets Brian, a scruffy artist at a coffee shop. Steven ordered an iced cold-brew coffee and Brian a skinny vanilla latte non-fat – at the same time. It was love at first sight. Steven asks Brian out, and they set a date for that Friday night. On the big night, Steven picks up Brian in his Mercedes, and they go to a fancy French bistro. Brian kisses Steven in the front seat of the car, much like Steven's first exploration of sexuality years ago.