Last time I checked, knowingly fucking married men is disrespectful, dishonest and certainly disloyal. You and your so called "standards" are laughable. Practice what you preach before you expect those traits from another.
Have you ever put your foot in your mouth and offended someone? How did you handle it? One Rock-A-Holic did just that and you can read my response here: http://www.kisw.com/pages/11281358.php?pid=357400