And you must measure whether the person you're arguing worth is worth your time, energy, and intellect. Bottom line: if it won't effect or interfere with filling your destiny or the call on your life, it, she, he, they are NOT worth it or worthy of it!!!!
Who holds the key to your happy heart? Is it me, or maybe someone else? Because if i feel that it is me, then I am not gonna waste another dying minute not doing anything about it! Either way, i think that you should be happy, even if it isn't with me :D