Whenever you find yourself in a confrontation of any kind, (before reacting) ask yourself, "Is what I am about to say motivated by my need to be right, or my desire to be kind?" Then choose a response that comes from loving kindness—regardless of how your ego might object.
Sometime today I let myself wonder back to when my best friend & I were actually best friends. I wasn't sure if I made the right decision to let her go, but I knew in my heart I had to because of certain reasons. I'm a very caring person who carries their heart on their sleeve & I've been nothing but sad. Letting someone go really hurts, but they are not in your life for a reason....right? I just don't know what to do. I honestly cannot find a way to overcome this heartache.