The 48 Laws of Power - Law 10. Infection: Avoid the unhappy and unhealthy. You can die from someone else's misery—emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
People will judge others according to their own life, and while judging is wrong in the first place, it also says more about them than about you. Don't worry about those people, if they lived one day in your place, they'd be astounded, overwhelmed, surprised, and never ever judge you again... so for now, just forgive them for their ignorance............. Angela from www.calligraphybyangela.com