A man complained to the Prophet (peace be upon him) about the harshness of his own heart. So the prophet (peace be upon him) told him: 'If you want to soften your heart, then feed a poor person and rub the head of an orphan.'
4 promises from Allah that you should never forget... 1. 'If you give thanks, I will give you more.' 2. 'Remember me and I will remember you.' 3. 'Ask me and I shall give you.' 4. 'Allah would not punish them while they seek forgiveness.'