Do not feed your mind with thoughts that may destroy you. It will teach your soul not to hope for the things you deserve by saying "You're not worthy of good things anymore". It will change you into a person you never wished. - Insular, K.
I hate to agree with this, but yes. It is not necessarily our faults though. Not always. The first thing we see is the outside. But I wish we could actually SEE personality, and values, and deep underlying emotions.
SO many people know someone is terrible, or mean, or stupid but they'll still say "damn she's hot!" or "he's gorgeous!", fuck that. As soon as someone acts like a dick//bitch whatever else, I lose all respect, and know what? Their looks mean shit to me. You're ugly.