Always. Once you see it you know you're next in line for it. Observe how people treat others when they are under stress - it's easy to be nice and speak nicely when life is grand. Kindness under stress takes character.
Death is Nothing at All I thought we had forever and That you and I would always be Now I mark my days alone Tears a release from the ache Of a heart so shattered And yet there are times when your Love, your light cleanses and makes me whole Until grief once again claims its due and I am wrapped in the shadows and thunderous silence of missing you ~ 444