We both must grow in our own separate lives as individuals... That doesnt mean we EVER have to grow apart as a couple. 1, 5, and even 10 years from now, we will look back at this time as the turning point in our relationship where we decided that WE were WORTH THE FIGHT!! I will NEVER give up on this LOVE and I promise you that WE will find a way for BOTH of US to grow SEPARATELY - TOGETHER!! I LOVE YOU H2O!!
I have always felt that the most important factor of judgement is love. This is why we accept Jesus Christ as our final judge--His perfect love qualifies Him to that position. If you do not love someone, your judgment of that person is inherently flawed.