Be careful and choose wisely what you allow to occupy the stage of your dominate thoughts, for truly the quality of your thinking determines the happiness of your life. “Man is made or unmade by himself. In the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.” –James Allen (from his inspiring book ‘As A Man Thinketh’)
Narcissists are afraid of life. They are afraid of being vulnerable therefore they take the most destructive way to gain control and power. They hurt people to make themselves feel better, strong and superior. They try to control and dominate others because its distracts them from dealing with their own issues.
I strongly believe that your words have power in them, so whenever I feel the urge to complain I will often say the total opposite of what I want to! So on a beautiful morning like this one in which I'm in the very purest of health, I have to say that I am wonderously happy and that this in fact will be the best day ever!
'If I say, I will speak thus; behold, I should offend against the generation of thy children. When I thought to know this, it was too painful for me. Until I went into the sanctuary of God; then understood I their end.' (Psalm 73:15-17)