This is so true. This is what my husband did when I left him. He did this with my immediate family, but luckily they knew he was saying wasn't true. But he has got people from different services feeling sorry for him. Even though they knew exactly what he did to me.
ignore toxic people exactly what i have done what i do i look out for myself I love myself first yet some people just don't get it. I think blocking people is infantile because we both adults and should know where people's boundaries stand and respect that. But now some people just push to the point where that's the only choice! Stay out my life!!!!!!!
Manipulative people latch on to empathetic targets and exploit their innate qualities. They find people who are easy-going, gentle and kind - who avoid conflict and seek to make others happy. The Problem: They reciprocate none of these things. Instead, they feel entitled to your constant forgiveness and self-blame. If you set boundaries or say no, you will be punished for reacting to their abuse. Toxic people constantly look to blame the victim.