Be a man who does things. Make mistakes. The opposite of "love" is not "hate". It is "apathy". Courage is not lack of fear, it is taking action in the face of fear, that is, courageous men have rejected apathy as an appropriate response to fear.
There's a lot of things I like about Teddy Roosevelt. I like his "speak softy, and carry a big stick." I like his conservation values. We need a Teddy Roosevelt in today's #climate dialogue. Read more - http://jamielewishedges.info/2015/02/16/teddy-roosevelt-leadership-on-climate/
I can't like this enough. So many times we stay in our little boxes because we're afraid of suffering. But the thing is that, when we stay in those boxes, we're not only protecting ourselves right out of suffering but also we're protecting ourselves right out of joy. It's a boring life.