Not everyone will appreciate what you do for them. You have to figure out who's worth your kindness and who's just taking advantage.

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Not everyone will appreciate what you do for them. You have to figure out who's worth your kindness and who's just taking advantage.

Truth ... sometimes all it takes is a sweet word, an act of kindness, a thoughtful act ...

Truth ... sometimes all it takes is a sweet word, an act of kindness, a thoughtful act ...

Learning this....slowly. Then just when you think you're strong, something pops up that leaves you feeling as vulnerable and confused as before. No more.

Learning this....slowly. Then just when you think you're strong, something pops up that leaves you feeling as vulnerable and confused as before. No more.

yep. then i lost myself and realised the ass holes were taking advantage of me. now. i put me first each and every time. i don't live for you, nor do i want to in any way, shape or form.

yep. then i lost myself and realised the ass holes were taking advantage of me. now. i put me first each and every time. i don't live for you, nor do i want to in any way, shape or form.

Confidence. Not ego...confidence. Ain't been afraid to eat alone, ever. I am my own best company. (besides my kids. ;)

Confidence. Not ego...confidence. Ain't been afraid to eat alone, ever. I am my own best company. (besides my kids. ;)

You know what your problem is? You get attached fast. And once you're attached to someone you do everything you can to please them and make them happy. It's never been about what you want it's always everyone's needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people who quite frankly do not deserve them. They take advantage of you and you become a pushover. But you're okay with that because they're in your life and that's all you ever really wanted. And even if they screw you over…

You know what your problem is? You get attached fast. And once you're attached to someone you do everything you can to please them and make them happy. It's never been about what you want it's always everyone's needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people who quite frankly do not deserve them. They take advantage of you and you become a pushover. But you're okay with that because they're in your life and that's all you ever really wanted. And even if they screw you over…

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