Stay strong and remain kind! I allowed anger and resentments of the arrogant to take my kindness from me. I'm just now learning to regain that inside me. Which, makes me a much better version of me and the real me! Never allow anyone to dull your shine!
What I enjoy most is not finding the dots, but the actual connecting of them. Humble is knowing I might have missed a dot, so I am just like you. What makes me different is, I love the search for dots. Even with two dots I can draw a line, with enough one can understand the pattern of life.