Role play with each-other. Meet at a coffee shop or restaurant and act as if the two of you are meeting for the first time... perhaps you are a sexy stranger... maybe even a sexy nerdy stranger? And make sure to wear some new lingerie for later ;) I want to try this one day! *click for a great wikihow on role playing
The Joker...I can only hope that I find this man so attractive because I subconsciously know it's my lifelong love Jared Leto underneath because I'm not sure I want to know what it says about females who find this appealing.