....and if you're really going to go all in-concerning love-make sure you choose someone who isn't selfish. I'm not saying he has to love you more than he loves himself. But he needs to love you at least equal to it. Otherwise...it will always be about him. His needs will always take precedence over your life. And believe me...you can't be 'happily ever after' with someone who makes you feel like you get his scraps.