Building your core values & beliefs - who are you really. Self discovery & definition. Building positive characteristics. Here are five potential "Strengths" or "Resilience" characteristics: Strategic, Ideation, Positivity, Communication, and Woo. (From the business world, but a good base to build your own)
Ten Things Your Partner (with ADD/ADHD) Want You To Know by Eileen Bailey - "Remember and acknowledge my positive characteristics and traits. Don't dwell on my faults and shortcomings. - Let me know that you see me as a loveable person. Let me know that you love me in spite of my faults."