You never loved me. 7 years and you could care less about it. I was your #1 and now I'm placed on the back burner while you impress little Miss Fuck Toy. I learned my listen. I've tried really hard while bringing faith back into my life but our family it torn now!
Ohhh yesss!!! Some people are just not willing nor will they ever be willing to make changes within themselves to make their lives or situations better. They are perfectionists at finger pointing and playing victim rather than admitting their role in a situation and make an effort to change themselves. It's not always the other person's fault..look at yourself first!
Toxic people will hurt you and then try to make you feel bad that you are mad or hurt or upset. It's known as blame shifting. Instead of taking accountability for their own actions, they blame you got "having feelings." Abusive people do this