PJ party: Love, love, love this idea!! In the very far future, have all the girls come over for a slumber party the night before and then have a Pancake Breakfast Pajama party that morning! And, once the girls go home, we get to spend the rest of the day with the birthday girl!
doughnut chomp. This also works for apples instead of the typical bobbing for apples (which I think is gross). New set of apples/doughnuts for each group and the kid can have their doughnut/apple when done.