Quote on anxiety: This is one the most frustrating things about having an anxiety disorder; knowing as you're freaking out that there's no reason to be freaked out, but lacking the ability to shut the emotion down. www.HealthyPlace.com
"you're too sensitive" "you're overreacting" "can't you take a joke?" Narcissists believe they are entitled to abuse and mistreat you. You are not too sensitive. You are likely much more healthy and aware than the abuser.