A narcissist and their enablers have hidden agendas. You have something they want or need. These opportunists who will do whatever it takes to get what they want. They are FAKE and NOT genuinely nice people.
People don't naturally think outside the box. Big picture is God's picture. It takes time to turn a big ship around. I can not wait to watch Him begin to work! It is not at all what I thought it might be which is even more awesome. Love comes in all different forms. He had to show me to think different first.
Never, yes and neither are you. Anyway its not about 'importance' its about deserving. Why should i keep being nice to a guy who only ever abuses me, rarely replies, and just mocks and ridicules me, tells me not to take anything seriouosly, and basically shows me no compassion ever but expects it by the bucket load in return? Why? Oh i ow, coz i should be his dirty rag, his doormat, his 'broken' woman. Well FUCK YOU SHAYLER NAZI CREEP, NO.
Yes, people just don't get it. It doesn't take much to say and do nice things, yet we fail at the first hurdle; depending on what we deal with. Be inspired. Change the way you do things and just Be Nice!