Unawareness in a Narcissistic Personality Disorder Abusive Relationship
The problem with a lot of abusive relationships is that the “abused” becomes unaware that he or she is "in an abusive relationship. They become completely unaware of the power dynamic within the relationship and how it is being used to control them." - good article linked
One day I'm going to SLAP these narcisstic bleeps SO tight for all they did to me. I'm going to teach them what narcissism is for good!! Mr Ghandi.G said turn the other cheek so she could slap you twice!! Not a bad idea in this case !! Or was it Jsus?