my habit. this is my survival. this is how i became the best possible mother i could be to my own children. everything that i witnessed through out my entire life from my great grandmother, grandmother, and mother was twisted, evil, controlling, pure nastiness. each and every one of these women treated their own daughters with horrible hate. narcissistic mothers destroy their own families. i walked away. i am the black sheep. i am recovering. no contact. love those who love you.
"A daughter who doesn't receive validation from her earliest relationship with her motherlearns that she has no significance in the world and her efforts have no effect." Dr Karyl McBride - Diary of a Daughter of an Ignoring Narcissistic Mother: Accosted
Narcissists constantly lie, exaggerate, and distort the truth to make you look crazy, abusive and bad. They provoke and bully, and do everything in their will to make you lose your temper in front of family and friends. They want you to look bad, whilst they act the victim. This tactics is called: Projective identification and Baiting. It's deceitful and treacherous.