I realized this a while ago, but I kept hoping. The text I got from you on Wednesday..and then saw the picture of you with her...made me realize I was right all along. You are not that fucking great and she can have you and all your fucked- upness.
This is so true of many people! You can't win an argument or bully them into thinking the same way that you do so, you make up lies to get others to take your side and/or make you feel superior! Then you wonder why you don't have any relationship. It's not hard to figure out.
I'm a "pathetic cunt". I'm a "lazy piece of shit". It's always "all my fault". You can't "deal with me when I'm like this". All I ever do is either try to explain myself, help you, and then, inevitably, cry. I cry, because I'm scared. I'm nothing. I'm a loser. I'm defeated. I'm worthless. That result is of your making, not mine. I can't ever say I've done anything wrong because of how I am nowadays.
It may take only one profound event to cause this...should you give an INTJ reason to pull away, you'll discover you've been completely eliminated from their life...you're not hated, you simply no longer exist. PP.