If you live with a narcissist, get out asap. Nothing ever changes with them. They are abusers by nature and will always justify their behavior in their own mind. They will demean you and isolate you in order to keep their control over you. The longer you are abused, the more difficult it is to get out. You will never win no matter how you cry, beg, try to reason with them, etc..... Don't let this happen to you. Love yourself enough to get out ASAP!!!
You!!! Labeling again and again and again...I refuse to let you or anyone else get to me and I am living my life my way..I know who I am and I do not need your approval or consent...to bad your not happy with me standing up for myself..get over it!!!
This is what it feel like to be with a Narcissist. You constantly have to have your guard up to avoid all attacks. Your survival instincts kicks in, and you will do anything to protect yourself from Narcissistic Abuse.
So what does your N expect? Your N expects you to be perfect. By the way, expectations change by the minute. He expects you to give him endless attention. Then he expects you to leave him alone. He expects you to be a sexual object giving into his every kinky thought. Then he expects you to want zero sex. You must figure out which is which. He expects you to put up with every imaginable verbal insult, silent treatment, rage episode he can dish out. You must never be hurt by...
How do you deal with living with a narcissist who is giving you the silent treatment? Someone who will co-exist with you in the same house while literally ignoring you? What if that goes on for days? Weeks? Ideally, this would be a two-word answer: no contact. But in real life, things don't always […]