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Living With A Narcissist

You!!! Labeling again and again and again...I refuse to let you or anyone else get to me and I am living my life my way..I know who I am and I do not need your approval or bad your not happy with me standing up for myself..get over it!!!

from migrainesurvivalblog

I am a Spoonie Living with an Invisible Disease

Wow - speaks to ‪#‎scleroderma‬ and many other terrible conditions not many pay attention to... you don't have to know, we hope you do though.


You were good at making it all out to be me who was crazy and I let you because I was in love with a monster who had me wrapped around his finger and tricked into believing only he could love me.


So what does your N expect? Your N expects you to be perfect. By the way, expectations change by the minute. He expects you to give him endless attention. Then he expects you to leave him alone. He expects you to be a sexual object giving into his every kinky thought. Then he expects you to want zero sex. You must figure out which is which. He expects you to put up with every imaginable verbal insult, silent treatment, rage episode he can dish out. You must never be hurt by...


This is what it feel like to be with a Narcissist. You constantly have to have your guard up to avoid all attacks. Your survival instincts kicks in, and you will do anything to protect yourself from Narcissistic Abuse.


YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER DOESN’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HIS ANGER; HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOUR ANGER. One of the basic human rights he takes away from you is the right to be angry with him. No matter how badly he treats you, he believes that your voice shouldn’t rise and your blood shouldn’t boil. The privilege of rage is reserved for him alone. When your anger does jump out of you—as will happen to any abused woman from time to time—he is likely to try to jam it back down your...


AMEN. This applies to YOU, you worthless piece of shit.


When a narcissist can no longer control you, they will instead try to control how others see you.

from An Upturned Soul

Bullies, WUMs (Wind-Up Merchants), and Other People Who Feel The Need to Make You Feel Shit About Yourself

Narcissists demand and feel entitled to you and any resources you have. Narcissists are quite audacious because with all their entitlement and unreasonable demands they feel it's perfectly fine to give you NOTHING. #narcissistsareneedyentitledphonylosers #endnarcissism #VictoriaSeltser