That's what friends are for To have friends you must first BE a friend. Are you waiting on others to make the first move or are you willing to reach out? Of course everyone wants to be on the receiving end, to have someone else interested enough to initiate, but why not be the one to BE the one? Sure, you’re risking rejection, but I think the likely benefit outweighs that occasional cost.
Oh if EVERYONE ONLY KNEW WHAT YOU DID.......step up to the plate and quit thinking you are a DAMN SAINT.......one day EVERYONE WILL KNOW!!! Unitl then......I hope your wait in fear for the bomb to drop in their laps.......SHAME.....SHAME.....SHAME